“If I could design my own kitchen again, I’d do a few things very differently,” says Mary, designer and owner at Designer Kitchen Direct.
And after more than 20 years of designing kitchens, that is probably worth listening to.
Because while most people begin their kitchen journey thinking about how the room will look, the best kitchens are rarely just about appearance. Of course, the colours matter. The worktops matter. The cabinetry, handles, appliances and finishing touches all matter.
But the real test of a kitchen is how it works.
Can you make a coffee without moving three things out of the way?
Can you prep dinner without the air fryer taking over half the worktop?
Can you open a drawer and actually see what is inside?
Can the room feel bright and practical during the day, then soft and relaxed in the evening?
That is where good kitchen design really proves itself.
At Designer Kitchen Direct, we have been designing and crafting bespoke kitchens for over 40 years, and one thing has become very clear: the details people overlook at the beginning are often the things they wish they had thought about later.
So, if Mary was designing her own kitchen again, these are the five things she would do differently.
1. I’d Plan a Proper Walk-In Pantry
First on Mary’s list? A walk-in pantry.
And not just because it sounds lovely, although it absolutely does.
A properly designed pantry can completely change how your kitchen works. It gives you a dedicated space for the things that often clutter up the main kitchen: the air fryer, KitchenAid, Nutribullet, toaster, coffee machine, food storage, baking ingredients and all those useful bits that never seem to have a proper home.
Instead of dragging appliances out of cupboards, they can be plugged in and ready to use. Instead of filling the main worktop with everyday clutter, the pantry becomes a practical working space of its own.
Everything is visible.
Everything is organised.
Everything has somewhere to live.
That is the dream.
A walk-in pantry is not just about storage. It is about making the main kitchen feel calmer, cleaner and easier to use. It gives you more clear worktop space, makes food preparation more efficient and helps keep the room looking beautiful without pretending real life does not exist.
Because real life does exist.
There are packets. There are appliances. There are lunch boxes. There are cereal boxes that apparently multiply in the night.
A pantry gives all of that a place to go.
Of course, not every home has the space for a full walk-in pantry. But the same idea can still be used in other ways. A breakfast cupboard, appliance cupboard, larder unit or hidden preparation area can offer many of the same benefits.
The key is to plan for the clutter before it arrives.
2. I’d Use the Full Height of the Room
One of the biggest missed opportunities in kitchen design is height.
So many kitchens stop short of the ceiling, leaving that awkward gap above the wall units. It collects dust, breaks up the line of the room and often makes the whole kitchen feel less finished.
Mary would avoid that.
Instead, she would take the cabinetry right up to the ceiling.
This instantly gives the kitchen a cleaner, more bespoke feel. It makes the room look taller, more considered and more elegant. It also gives you extra storage for the things you do not need every day.
Christmas crockery.
Serving dishes.
Large vases.
Special occasion glassware.
That one enormous platter that only comes out twice a year but somehow needs an entire cupboard to itself.
These harder-to-reach areas do not need to hold everyday items. That is not the point. They are perfect for occasional pieces, while your daily essentials can stay exactly where you need them.
This is one of the reasons bespoke kitchen design makes such a difference. Rather than forcing your home to fit around standard cabinet sizes, the furniture can be designed around the proportions of the room.
Standard units might suit manufacturers.
But your kitchen should suit you.
Taking cabinetry to the ceiling is practical, yes, but it also changes the feel of the whole room. It gives the kitchen presence. It makes the design feel intentional. It removes visual clutter and creates a more seamless, high-end finish.
It is a simple idea, but a powerful one.
3. I’d Take Lighting Much More Seriously
Lighting is one of those things people often think about too late.
They choose the cabinets. They choose the worktops. They choose the appliances. Then, somewhere near the end, someone says, “Oh yes, what are we doing about the lights?”
But lighting should never be an afterthought.
It can completely change how a kitchen looks, feels and functions.
Mary’s advice is simple: layer it properly.
You need practical lighting for cooking and preparation, but you also need softer lighting for the moments when the kitchen becomes a living space. Because modern kitchens are not just places to chop onions. They are places to talk, host, pour a glass of wine, help with homework, gather after work and linger long after dinner has finished.
A good lighting plan might include ceiling spots, feature pendants over an island, wall lights, under-cabinet lighting and even internal cupboard lighting that comes on when the door opens.
Each layer has a job.
Ceiling lights give you brightness.
Under-cabinet lights help with preparation.
Pendants create focus and atmosphere.
Wall lights soften the room.
Cupboard lighting adds practicality and a little bit of everyday luxury.
And for Mary, a dimmer is non-negotiable.
Bright and practical in the morning.
Soft and atmospheric in the evening.
It is a small detail, but it makes a huge difference.
Because the same kitchen needs to do different things at different times of day. The lighting should be able to change with it.
4. I’d Choose Drawers Wherever Possible
“No one has ever said to me, ‘I wish I had fewer drawers,’” says Mary.
And she is right.
Drawers are one of the best investments you can make in how your kitchen works day to day.
Cupboards have their place, but they often involve bending, reaching and rummaging around at the back for the one thing you actually need. Drawers bring everything out to you. You can see what you have. You can reach it easily. Nothing gets lost in the dark little cave at the back of a base unit.
Deep drawers are brilliant for pans, plates, bowls, baking dishes and dry goods. Smaller drawers can be used for cutlery, utensils, spices, tea towels and all the everyday bits that need to be close to hand.
They make the kitchen feel easier.
And that matters.
A beautiful kitchen should not only look impressive in photographs. It should make normal daily life smoother. You should be able to unload the dishwasher easily, prep food comfortably and find what you need without performing a small archaeological dig every time you cook.
Yes, drawers usually cost more than standard cupboards.
But if you are deciding where to invest, this is one area where the difference is felt every single day.
That is the real value of good design. Not just what people notice when they walk into the room, but what you appreciate quietly every morning when everything works exactly as it should.
5. I’d Keep the Main Design Timeless
Trends can be wonderful.
They give us inspiration, fresh ideas and new ways to think about our homes. But a kitchen is a long-term investment, so the main design needs to have staying power.
Mary’s advice would be to keep the foundations of the kitchen timeless.
That does not mean boring. Far from it.
It means choosing cabinetry, proportions, layout and key finishes that you will still love in ten or twenty years. The personality can then come through in the details.
Handles.
Paint colours.
Fabrics.
Artwork.
Bar stools.
Lighting.
Accessories.
These are the things that can be changed more easily over time. They allow the kitchen to evolve without needing to rip everything out and start again.
This is especially true with painted kitchens. A beautifully made painted kitchen can be refreshed in the future, giving you the option to change the colour while keeping the quality cabinetry underneath.
That is one of the great advantages of a bespoke kitchen. It is not designed for a passing trend. It is designed to grow with you.
A timeless kitchen should still have character. It should still feel personal. But it should not depend entirely on a trend that may feel tired in a few years.
The best kitchens have a quiet confidence.
They do not shout for attention.
They simply work beautifully.
The Real Mistake? Designing for the Picture, Not the Person
The biggest kitchen design mistake is not choosing the wrong colour or forgetting a fashionable feature.
It is designing a kitchen around how it will look online, rather than how it will work in real life.
A kitchen is not just a backdrop. It is one of the hardest-working rooms in the home. It has to cope with busy mornings, slow Sundays, family meals, parties, shopping bags, school bags, pets, guests, cooking experiments and the occasional full-scale disaster involving flour.
So before you think too much about trends, think about your routines.
Where will the toaster go?
Where will you charge your phone?
Where will the dog bowl sit?
Where will you put the things you use every day?
Where will you hide the things you do not want on show?
How do you want the kitchen to feel when everyone ends up standing in it at a party?
These are the questions that create a kitchen that truly works.
And they are exactly the questions a good designer should be asking you.
Start With the Way You Live
If you are planning a new kitchen, Mary’s advice is simple: do not rush straight to the finishes.
Start with the way you live.
Think about what frustrates you in your current kitchen. Think about what you use every day. Think about what you wish was hidden, what you wish was easier to reach and what would genuinely make the room feel better.
Then build the design around that.
Because a great kitchen is not just a beautiful collection of doors, worktops and appliances. It is a room that understands you.
It should make everyday life easier.
It should feel calm, practical and considered.
It should look beautiful, of course, but it should also work beautifully.
That is what good kitchen design is really about.
Thinking About a New Kitchen?
If you are considering a new kitchen this year, come and have a chat with one of our designers.
Our design consultations are completely free and without pressure. It is simply a chance to talk through your ideas, explore what is possible and start shaping a kitchen that works properly from the beginning.
At Designer Kitchen Direct, we design and craft bespoke kitchens built around real homes, real routines and real people.
Because the best kitchens are not just designed to be admired.
They are designed to be lived in.
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